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Financial Advisors, the FHA-insured Home Conversion Mortgage (HECM) for Purchase can help your clients gain financial footing.
As a financial advisor, you’ve likely seen firsthand how disruptive divorce can be—especially later in life. For older adults nearing or in retirement, a split can upend decades of financial planning, impact housing stability, and shrink the runway for recovery.
But here’s the good news: there’s an underutilized financial planning add-on tool that can help your senior clients reset and regain stability. The FHA’s Home Equity Conversion mortgage (HECM), a government-insured reverse mortgage, enables a Boomer or Senior to refinance a home to buy out a departing spouse’s interest (or buy a new home) all without the cash flow drag of monthly mortgage payments.
Trusted Advisors who understand the dynamics of the HECM Refinance, and the HECM for Purchase (sometimes referred to as the Lifestyle Loan) can turn a divorce into a strategic planning opportunity.
The HECM as a refinance tool is an FHA-insured loan that enables eligible adults aged 62+ (spouses who want to keep the marital home) to access the funds they need to buyout the departing spouse. This unique, non-recourse home financing tool provides the divorcee with non-taxable* loan proceeds — without taking on a new monthly mortgage payment, and without giving up assets held in securities or other resources they will need to rely on throughout their golden years.
What Is HECM for Purchase?
The Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) for Purchase enables the departing spouse to obtain home financing, secured by their new home, to buy a new primary residence. The new home is purchased using the HECM reverse mortgage proceeds and a down payment—typically from the sale of a previous home, or with proceeds from an equity buyout by their former spouse.
The major advantages (as with the HECM Refinance Loan) are: minimal income and credit requirements, and no monthly mortgage payments, which can greatly improve post-divorce cash flow in retirement.
Yet despite these HECM reverse mortgage benefits, there is a severe lack of awareness—especially among the professionals that seniors turn to in times of crisis: attorneys, mediators, and yes—financial advisors.
Why Senior Divorce Requires a New Planning Mindset
The so-called “Silver Divorce” trend is on the rise. AARP reports that divorce among Boomers has tripled since 1990, and Bowling Green State University found that one in eight U.S. divorce now involves someone age 65 or older. One in four includes someone in their fifties.
Dividing assets like real estate becomes more complicated in retirement, when both spouses are on fixed incomes and cash flow is critical. Many older divorcees also face:
– Reduced retirement savings
– Limited borrowing capacity
– Emotional stress over losing the family home
– Fewer years to recover financially
This is where HECM for Purchase shines—as a strategic tool for helping each spouse secure affordable housing and financial stability without draining retirement funds.
Case in Point: A Better Path After Divorce
Imagine a couple in their late 60s divorcing after decades of marriage. The marital home is sold, but only one spouse qualifies for a conventional mortgage—and neither wants to rent.
With HECM for Purchase each spouse can use their share of home sale proceeds as a down payment, and the HECM for Purchase pays the balance of the purchase price.
– Purchase a lower maintenance, right-sized home more suited to single living
– Eliminate monthly mortgage payments**
– Preserve cash flow for healthcare, travel, or simply peace of mind
In many cases, HECM for Purchase can safeguard against post-divorce housing instability—a growing concern among older women who initiate a majority of later-life divorces.
What This Means for Financial Advisors
If you serve pre-retirees or retirees, you’re already working with clients who may be affected by late-life divorce. Proactively introducing the HECM for Purchase Lifestyle Loan as part of your housing or retirement income strategy can:
– Help clients preserve liquidity and reduce fixed expenses
– Position you as a trusted, solution-oriented advisor
– Open doors for collaboration with divorce attorneys and real estate pros
– Differentiate your practice with a niche service offering
Build Your Referral Network
Attorneys and mediators are often the first to hear about divorce. But they’re not housing experts—and many still view reverse mortgages through an outdated lens.
As a financial advisor, you have an opportunity to:
– Bridge the knowledge gap
– Collaborate with reverse mortgage specialists
– Provide holistic support to divorcing clients
– Grow your practice through a valuable referral network
Final Thoughts
The intersection of Silver Divorce and financial planning is an emerging frontier—and the FHA-insured HECM for Purchase is one of the most powerful, underused tools available to financial advisors today.
Divorce is hard enough. Helping your clients maintain homeownership and retirement security is not just smart planning—it’s compassionate, comprehensive care.
Want to learn how HECM for purchase can support your clients as they navigate one of life’s biggest challenges—as well as providing new referral opportunities?
Let’s connect for a free consultation. Email me at [email protected] or send me a LinkedIn note.
*Consult a tax advisor for personalized tax guidance.
**Reverse mortgage borrower must occupy home as primary residence and remain current on property taxes, homeowner’s insurance, the costs of home maintenance, and any HOA fees.
Mary Jo Lafaye, NMLS ID 246222. Mutual of Omaha Mortgage, Inc. dba Mutual of Omaha Reverse Mortgage, NMLS ID 1025894. 3131 Camino Del Rio N 1100, San Diego, CA 92108. Licensed by the Department of Financial Protection & Innovation under the California Residential Mortgage Lending Act, License 4131356. These materials are not from HUD or FHA and the document was not approved by HUD, FHA or any Government Agency. Subject to credit approval. For licensing information, go to: www.nmlsconsumeraccess.org
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